December 20, 2021

Elizabeth (Betty) R. Troiani D’Orazio

Betty D’Orazio, 92, died quietly on Dec. 14. Betty was preceded in death by her husband, Angelo, and her two brothers, Emedio and Elmo Troiani. She is survived by her three children and their families:  Carolyn, her husband Michael and children Dan, Angeline and Steve, and Dan’s daughter Alyssa; also, Antoinette and her husband Bill; and Tony, his wife Connie, and his children Matt, Kristine and Torrie, and Torrie’s children Kaelyn and Owen.

Betty D’Orazio,

Betty was born in Wilmington, where she graduated from Wilmington High School and worked in her family’s specialty grocery store, Valentino’s Market, located on King Street. Valentino’s was well known in the community as a resource for exotic produce and imported gourmet foods, as well as meat and deli items. At Christmastime, Betty helped create the market’s signature customized fruit baskets for its many customers.

A talented artist, Betty applied her skills to woodworking, sculpture, charcoal drawing, and painting with acrylics, oils, and watercolor. She owned her own kiln and fired pottery at home for her family who still cherishes many of her pieces including pottery, paintings, and furniture. Betty loved all of her creative endeavors and more than once won a prize in Kennett Square’s Christmas decorating contest.

Betty was very active and athletic. She helped coach the swim team at the Kennett Square Golf and Country Club and taught all of her children and grandchildren to swim. She also coached a local girls’ softball team. Her upbeat, friendly personality made her a perfect fit for her job as a hostess at the Three Little Bakers Dinner Theater, and many will remember her as the woman who handed out “Turtle Bread” to contest winners and danced onstage with Baker Nick Immediato. She also volunteered at Longwood Gardens as the greeter at the Pierce DuPont House.

Betty loved the Jersey Shore.  She first spent time in Atlantic City with her mother, then in Wildwood, and finally to Cape May where she spent more than 30 summers vacationing with her extended family. There was nothing she loved more than a day at the beach with her grandchildren, sitting on the sand, swimming in the ocean, walking the boardwalk, and visiting the stores and arcades with them. Betty’s family was always her first priority and she worked hard to establish traditions that will live on for generations. She was a great teacher and passed on her skills of cooking, sewing, all kinds of art, and even filmmaking to her family. She loved gardening, live music, light beer on ice, and dancing. She will be missed by her family and a great number of friends.

The family will receive friends on Tuesday, Dec. 21, from 10 – 11 a.m. at the Kuzo Funeral Home, 250 West State St., Kennett Square, PA 19348 followed by a graveside service at St. Patrick Cemetery at 11:30.

Contributions may be made in Mrs. D’Orazio’s name to the Alzheimer’s Foundation of America, 322 Eighth Ave., 16th floor, New York, NY 10001 or by visiting https://alzfdn.org.

Arrangements by the Kuzo Funeral Home, Kennett Square; please visit Mrs. D’Orazio’s online memorial by going to www.kuzoandfoulkfh.com.

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Musings: School boards and parents

It’s been a tough year for school boards around the country. But it’s been tougher on parents with school-aged children.

Parents in states across the country have expressed anger at mask mandates, at Critical Race Theory being pushed into the curriculum, and for including and, in some cases promoting LGBTQ life. Granted, many of those reports are from conservative groups, but that does not invalidate their claims or concerns.

As with other things, parents have the right to express their frustrations and anger, be they right or wrong. That said, others are free to vocally disagree with their viewpoints. But what can’t be denied is their right to speak their mind. Yet, some school boards, even a few local boards, think they can and should restrict the constitutional right to petition the government for a redress of grievances.

Make no mistake, school boards are a part of their state governments. What we refer to as “public” schools should more accurately be called government schools. School board members are elected to their positions and take an oath to uphold the Constitution. And school boards have the power to levy real estate taxes. So, yeah, the boards are government, and people have the right to gripe at school board directors if they see something going on in schools that they think is wrong.

Not all school board members like that last fact. Of course, they’ll say they do, but some show otherwise. A case in point is what happened earlier this year at a West Chester Area School Board meeting when the board President Chris McCune ripped the microphone from a woman’s hand and had her thrown out of the meeting for going over her time, even though others had done the same. Maybe her berating him added to his urgency. A video of the incident on YouTube went viral and drew some national media attention. (McCune lost his bid for reelection in November because of the incident.)

Not as dramatic as the West Chester Mic Grab, but almost as demonstrative, was the Great U-CF Walk-off.

During the August meeting, a parent wanted to speak out against forced masking, something that many parents had been doing for months, but to no avail and they wound up feeling unheard and disrespected. This man was not going to stop talking at the three-minute limit, and he announced his attention to talk for as long as he needed to.

School Board President Jeff Hellrung called a recess for an executive session. They came back 20 minutes later and held a more subdued meeting, even talking about masking.

Yet, some parents still contend the board members and administration are shutting their ears to them or just don’t want to have an open and honest talk. Because of the August incident, the board went back to Zoom meetings briefly and announced in October that the directors are considering a change to Policy 903. That’s the policy the board is to follow regarding public comment.

One potential change under consideration would require people to sign up to make a public comment. How would that play on the minds of people who already feel ignored and disrespected by the board? I doubt it would fill them with any confidence that things would improve.

And now we learn the story of Claude Albert, a father who wasn’t allowed to advocate for his son before the board because the dad lives in New Jersey. His son and ex-wife live in Chadds Ford, but he’s out of the district.

Policy 903 currently reads: “The board requires that public participants be residents or taxpayers of this district. Others may be recognized at the discretion of the presiding officer.”

The first sentence applies since Albert lives elsewhere. But the second sentence makes it clear that the first sentence doesn’t always apply. The board president or whoever is presiding at a given meeting has the discretion to allow an “outsider” to speak.

And Hellrung acknowledged that fact when asked why he didn’t allow the speaker.

“I thought it best to enforce the policy as written and didn’t see a good reason to override the general policy, nor did he ask me to do that,” Hellrung said in response to an email from Chadds Ford Live.

He went on to say he thought he was doing the man a favor by letting him know in advance so he wouldn’t have to make a long, two-way trip between New Jersey and the district.

Albert is the father of a Patton Middle School student who has been having health problems because of the masking. In a letter from the family to the board, they said their son was experiencing headaches, shortness of breath, anxiety, and decline in cognitive performance because of the masks.

The good news, according to Albert, is that Steve Disinger, the principal at Patton, got exemption papers to the family, and the boy is now exempt from wearing the mask. But that help did not come from the board. Instead, the board president silenced the dad that night of Dec. 6.

Other parents have also reported their kids having health issues because of — or related to — the masking. For example, one young girl threw up in her mask because she felt ill but was afraid to remove the mask.

Sometimes school board actions or announcements can remind people of a not-so-kind quote about school boards from Mark Twain: “God made the idiot for practice, and then he made the school board.”

But Twain was a humorist and what’s been going on with schools this year is far from humorous. Preventing Mr. Albert from advocating for his son was worse than idiotic; it was arbitrary and authoritarian.

Forced masking in schools may soon become a moot point. The state Supreme Court has overturned the state masking mandate. But the school district also follows recommendations from the Chester County Health Department. What would the district do if the health department said to keep the masks?

What would the parents do if the district went along with such a restriction from the health department? And what would the board do if those upset parents became angry and loud? Would the board have the parents declared domestic terrorists? That’s what the National School Boards Association asked the Biden administration to do a few months ago.

No, not a good year at all for school boards or parents.

About Rich Schwartzman

Rich Schwartzman has been reporting on events in the greater Chadds Ford area since September 2001 when he became the founding editor of The Chadds Ford Post. In April 2009 he became managing editor of ChaddsFordLive. He is also an award-winning photographer.

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Adopt-a-Pet Dec. 20

Adopt-a-Pet Dec. 20

The following animals are ready to be adopted from the Brandywine Valley SPCA in West Chester.

Manny

Manny

Adorable Manny loves people and pets. He is quite the big tabby, but still enjoys being held. You can adopt him for a fee you name through Sunday, Dec. 26.

Harley

Harley

One look into Harley’s eyes and even Jack Frost would melt. Large and lovable Harley is lots of fun and loves playing with other dogs. Her holiday wish is to find a new family that also has a doggie sibling to play with. Harley qualifies for Gabriel and Emma’s Gift in which all large adult dogs at our West Chester campus have generously sponsored fees through Jan. 2.

For more information, go to www.bvspca.org or phone 484-302-0865.

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