February 19, 2016

Veteran teacher accused of illicit relationship

A longtime Ridley High School physics teacher and track coach was arrested on institutional sexual assault charges for his relationship with an 18-year-old female student at the school.

Gregory Stanczuk
Gregory Stanczuk

Delaware County District Attorney Jack Whelan said in a press release that Gregory A. Stanczuk, 52, of Birmingham Township, was taken into custody on Friday, Feb. 19, following a three-week investigation by Sgt. Robin F. Clark of the Delaware County District Attorney’s Criminal Investigation Division Child Abuse Unit.

On Jan. 29, Clark received information that Stanczuk, a physics teacher of more than 30 years and head girls’ track and field coach, had initiated an inappropriate relationship with a female student when she was a senior. The girl, a member of the track team for four years, had Stanczuk as a teacher her freshman year, the release said.

According to the victim, she and the coach began spending a lot of time together after she broke up with her boyfriend. During that time, she told detectives that she was in a vulnerable state because of the breakup, the release said.

She told detectives that she confided in Stanczuk and considered him a trusted friend. When Stanczuk drove students home after practice, he would drop off the victim last, and they would be alone in the car together. During those times they would talk about her breakup, and he would try and comfort her by giving her a hug, according to the release.

As time went on, they began texting each other, and Stanczuk would tell the victim how similar they were and that no one understood her like he did. In the spring of 2014, they were driving around talking and ended up in Ridley Creek State Park where Stanczuk pulled her in and kissed her. The girl reportedly became upset, prompting Stanczuk to say: “If you don’t want me to do that, we don’t have to,” the release said.

Following that day, they continued to drive around and he would often hold her hand. Stanzcuk told the victim that she made him feel young. On one occasion he drove through his own neighborhood in Birmingham Township with the victim in the car, driving past his house because “it gave him adrenaline to do so,” the release said.

One time, Stanczuk sent the victim a text around 2 a.m. asking if she wanted to meet at a hotel. She eventually agreed, and he picked her up in his car. The victim told detectives that in the hotel room, they started kissing and got undressed. After performing oral sex on her, he wanted to do more, but she became upset, stating: “You have a wife and kids.”

The next day at school, she and Stanczuk joked about the previous night at the hotel, she told detectives, adding that she would “feel sick” when she thought about what had happened.

She said another incident occurred in June 2014 when the track team went to nationals in Greensboro, N.C. One night after Stanczuk had given her three or four beers, he made a pass at her in his hotel room. When she responded that she had a boyfriend, he said: “So what, he doesn’t have to know,” the release said, adding that the victim started crying and left the room.

“As a teacher and coach, Gregory Stanczuk flagrantly used his position of trust and authority to exploit the victim, manipulating her emotionally for his own sexual gratification,” Whelan said in the release. “He crossed the line between teacher and student and committed a crime by engaging in sexual behavior with his student.”

Whelan commend Det. Sgt. Robin Clark along with Deputy District Attorney Michael Galantino, who will be prosecuting the case, for their work on the case, the release said.

Stanczuk was arraigned and failed to post 10 percent of his $100,000 bail. He will be processed and then transported to prison to await a preliminary hearing, according to court officials.

The release suggested that any parents who believe their child was victimized they should contact Clark at 610-891-4118.

 

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Roadwork for week of Feb. 20

PennDOT has announced the following road projects, which are weather-dependent and could affect residents in the greater Chadds Ford area during the week of Feb. 20 through Feb. 27. Motorists are urged to allow extra time if they are traveling through one of the construction zones.

Route 322 in both directions will continue to be the site of patching crews between Route 1 and I-95 in Concord, Bethel and Upper Chichester townships. The work, which will require lane closures, is scheduled on Wednesday, Feb. 24, from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Lane restrictions will continue on Route 202 in both directions in Birmingham, Thornbury, and Westtown townships between Routes 1 and 926. Crews are scheduled to work on patching from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. from Monday, Feb. 22, through Thursday, Feb. 25.

Drivers on Route 1 in Concord Township will continue to experience lane restrictions between Powell and Stoney Bank roads from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. Crews will be working on turning-lane reconfigurations through Friday, Feb. 26.

Work is continuing on the project to widen Route 202, which is scheduled for completion in August 2016.  Motorists should expect delays for traffic pattern shifts in Tredyffrin and East Whiteland townships.

Work will also continue on the Speakman Covered Bridge in East Fallowfield and West Marlborough townships. Frog Hollow Road between Concord Bridge and Strasburg roads will be closed and detoured until the estimated completion date of Sept. 20.

Burnt Mill Road in Kennett Township remains closed and detoured indefinitely between Norway and Spring Mill roads while advance work continues on repairs to the Burnt Mill Bridge, which was closed on April 24, 2014.

The Birmingham Road Bridge in Birmingham Township is also closed indefinitely to repair structural damage discovered in September. Posted detours will be in effect between Lambourne Road and Stoney Run Drive.

West Boot Road in West Whiteland Township will be the site of utility installation from Monday, Feb. 22, through, Monday, Feb. 29. Lane closures will be needed between Spackmans Lane and Julieanna Drive from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Bridge inspections on I-95 will require lane closures this week in Philadelphia. On Tuesday, Feb. 23, from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m., the right lane will be closed on between I-676 and Washington Avenue; and on Thursday, Feb. 25, from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m., the right lane will be closed between I-676 and Washington Avenue.

If you want to report potholes and other roadway maintenance concerns on state roads, call 610-566-0972 in Delaware County or 484-340-3200 in Chester County, or visit www.dot.state.pa.us and click on “submit feedback.”

 

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Whip raises glasses, funds for conservancy

Mindful of their history, the owners of the Whip Tavern in West Marlborough are committed to raising funds for the Brandywine Conservancy. Photos courtesy of the Whip Tavern.

More than 7,500 glasses were raised at The Whip Tavern last year that celebrated the popular watering hole’s bucolic surroundings while also raising funds for the Brandywine Conservancy.

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A cider that pays homage to the Whip Tavern’s foxhunting heritage deserves a special tap handle, the owners decided, commissioning a design reminiscent of a split-rail fence.

The conservancy received a check for $3,772 from sales of “For Fox Sake,” a private-label house cider. Made from apples that are grown, pressed, and fermented at Big Hill Ciderworks in Adams County, the cider has no added sugars or flavors. Thus, it serves as a perfect complement to the tavern’s natural vistas, which owe their existence to the conservancy.

The Whip Tavern in West Marlborough Township sits on ground once dominated by the 5,400-acre King Ranch property, which also included land in East Marlborough, Newlin, and East Fallowfield Townships. The property had been occupied by 5,000 cherry-colored Texas steer before it was permanently protected by the Brandywine Conservancy, which engineered one of the largest private land conservation projects in Pennsylvania history.

“We raise a glass to toast the Whip Tavern for their support of our open space and clean water programs,” said Virginia A. Logan, the executive director of the Brandywine Conservancy & Museum of Art. “They have found a delicious way to advance our important work, and we are truly grateful.”

From March 15 through Dec. 31, fifty cents from each Imperial pint of For Fox Sake cider generated the funds for the conservancy. Owners K.C. Kulp and Luke A. Allen have partnered with the conservancy since the tavern opened in 2005. However, the advent of the cider – an unconventional response to a corporate takeover – provided an easy, trackable way to support the region’s equestrian heritage.

Kulp explained that after Heineken USA purchased Strongbow Cider, the Whip’s former house pour, the corporate giant decided to alter the recipe, sweetening the cider in 2013. The change prompted Kulp and Allen to begin a quest to develop a replacement that took them to Big Hill Ciderworks in Gardner, Pa. The result: a fruit-forward, off-dry English-style cider.

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Fifty cents from the sale of each Imperial pint of ‘For Fox Sake’ goes to the Brandywine Conservancy.

In keeping with a British sense of humor, the name playfully references the Whip’s continuing commitment to the Brandywine Conservancy, Kulp said. “It’s fun to say aloud at the bar and also gets people to blush in a fun way,” he said. Moreover, it pays homage to the pub’s location in the heart of Chester County horse country, he added.

“We’re so blessed to have an organization like the conservancy protecting open space,” Kulp said. “We’re happy to be a part of making that happen.”

The Whip Tavern is open Wednesday through Monday from 11 a.m. to midnight. Although the Whip sells malt and beer, it is BYOB for liquor or wine and charges a small corking fee. To keep the tavern casual, reservations are not accepted, but sitting by the fire with a pint of cider while waiting for a table is definitely encouraged.

 

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Dorothy “Dot” Rachel Russell of West Grove

Dorothy “Dot” Rachel Russell
Dorothy “Dot” Rachel Russell

Dorothy “Dot” Rachel Russell, 82, of West Grove, died Tuesday, Feb. 16 at Ware Presbyterian Village in Oxford.

Born in Kelton, she was a daughter of the late Oliver H. and the late Mary Cecil (Pierce) Russell.

She graduated from Avon Grove High School in 1952 and remained in West Grove all her life. She loved collecting data and memorabilia about the history of the area.

Dot was a technician at the West Grove Pharmacy for more than 53 years and worked part time at Jennersville Regional Hospital for 13 years during her career.

She was a longtime member of the West Grove United Methodist Church. She enjoyed crocheting doilies, knitting for other people (especially babies), spending time with her extended family, her church family and participating in church events.  She was known for her positive attitude, engaging smile and sense of humor.

Survivors include five nieces, Janet Foltz (Adam), Judy Daugherty (Gene) Virginia Ritchie, Ruth Blankenbeckler (Ron) and Andrea Morgan (Norman); two nephews, David Russell (Jeanne) and Barry Thomas (Terri) and many great and great-great nieces and nephews and dear friends.

You are invited to visit with Dot’s family and friends from 10-11 a.m. Saturday, Feb. 20, at West Grove United Methodist Church 300 N. Guernsey RD West Grove, PA 19390. Her funeral service will follow at 11. Interment will be in New London Methodist Cemetery.  In lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory may be made to West Grove UMC church at the aforementioned address.  Arrangements are being handled by the Foulk & Grieco Funeral Home Inc. (610-869-2685) of West Grove.  To view her online tribute and to share a memory with her family, please visit www.griecocares.com

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Wyn Hiles of Landenberg

Wyn Hiles, 67, of Landenberg, died Sunday, Feb. 14, surrounded by his family after a brief, sudden illness. Born in Harrisburg, on Feb. 9, 1949 to the late Bernard M. Hiles and Eva Runk Hiles, he grew up in Newark, and was a long time resident of Landenberg. A 1967 graduate of Christiana High School, he went on to earn his bachelor’s of science degree in economics from the University of Delaware.

In addition to his parents, Wyn was preceded in death by his first wife of eight years, Connie Young Hiles. He is survived by his current wife Cindy, with whom he shared 25 years of marriage; his sons, Lee, son of Connie, and Andrew; his brother Dr. Samuel Allison, sister-in-law Marilyn, nephew Jim Allison, niece Susan Monticello all of Sacramento, Calif. He is also survived by cousins Debbie Snow, Mary K McCullough, an aunt Carolyn Baker and his in-laws, nieces, and nephew, all of who will greatly miss him.

He was an employee of the DuPont Company at the Stine-Haskell Lab in Newark, from 1980 until his retirement in January 2012. Wyn held many positions during his career, beginning as a lab technician in crop protection and at retirement as a project manager.

Wyn enjoyed spending time with his family, especially his sons. He was happiest sketching, designing and building projects of every shape, form, and size. He was extremely creative and industrious, always having numerous endeavors in the works. He was constantly redesigning and renovating, from the home in Landenberg he built in its entirety for Connie and Lee to a cottage on the Bohemia River he renovated with Cindy and Lee. In retirement he enjoyed expanding his project repertoire, working in his vegetable garden, boating, camping and spending time in the Adirondacks.

Wyn will be remembered by friends and family as a caring, loving husband, proud father, devoted son and brother, and loyal friend.

You are invited to visit with Wyn’s family and friends from 2-3 p.m. Sunday, March 13, at Hartefeld National, One Hartefeld Drive, Avondale, Pennsylvania 19311. A Ceremony Celebrating his life will be at 3 p.m. with a reception to follow.

The family requests in lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association, 399 Market St. Suite 102 Philadelphia, PA 19106 or the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society Eastern PA Chapter 555 North Lane, Suite 5010 Conshohocken, PA 19428 or to a charity of your choosing.  To honor Wyn and to thank the dozens of Blood Bank of Delmarva (BBD) members who donated platelets in his final days, our family would like to encourage those who can donate platelets to do so.  Please contact BBD at 1-888-8 BLOOD 8 to schedule an appointment or go to DelmarvaBlood.org.

Arrangements are being handled by the Kuzo & Grieco Funeral Home of Kennett Square (610-444-4116) To view his online tribute and to share a memory with his family, please visit www.griecocares.com

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Student-run County Cup opening 4th location

The County Cup, a popular, culinary initiative of the Chester County Intermediate Unit (CCIU), is poised to celebrate its fourth location.

A County Cup student worker is shown at the Government Services Center kiosk. Photo courtesy of CCIU
A County Cup student worker is shown at the Government Services Center kiosk in West Chester. Photo courtesy of CCIU

An official ribbon-cutting ceremony for the County Cup Delaware County Community College (DCCC), Pennock’s Bridge Campus, will be held on Monday, Feb. 22, from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m., according to a CCIU press release.

DCCC operates Pennock’s Bridge as a joint venture with the Chester County Intermediate Unit. The campus is within the Technical College High School in West Grove, which serves students from the Avon Grove, Kennett Consolidated, Octorara Area, Oxford Area, and Unionville-Chadds Ford school districts.

The first County Cup opened in December 2012 as a kiosk in the Government Services Center, where it quickly became a gathering spot for county employees. Since then, the County Cup has added sites at the Chester County Justice Center in West Chester and the Chester County Learning Center in Coatesville.

By ordering something as simple as a cup of coffee or a sandwich, customers participate in the students’ education. All County Cup locations provide students in CCIU programs with the opportunity to learn skills that could potentially increase their employability.

For aspiring chefs and food-service workers, the County Cup offers a uniquely hands-on learning experience. The County Cup DCCC, Pennock’s Bridge Campus, will feature a Grab and Go Café with items prepared by students from the three campuses of the Technical College High School. Student workers and volunteers from the CCIU Discover program, with guidance from CCIU job coaches, support the day-to-day operation of the café.

Following the ribbon-cutting ceremony, attendees will have the opportunity to sample items that are sold at the County Cup, the release said.

The County Cup DCCC, Pennock’s Bridge, will be open Monday through Friday from 7:30 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. and will serve breakfast sandwiches, bagels, muffins, soups, sandwiches, salads, desserts, Wawa coffee and cold beverages.

 

 

 

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Boost Your Business: Proposal or contract?

You’re in a new business meeting, a closing situation with a late-stage prospect, and the client is enthusiastic. “Great, I’d like to do this. Get me a proposal.” You write up your proposal, send it over and follow up by telephone. Voicemail. You leave a message and promise to follow-up the next day. Again, voicemail. You send an enthusiastic email. Nothing. Days slip by. Then weeks. What was once a highly responsive, easy to reach prospect has turned into a ghost. What happened?

One of two things likely caused the prospect to disappear. Either they shopped the proposal around and found a better price, or in the time between when they said they were going to act and when they received your proposal, buyers’ remorse kicked in and they slipped from a late-stage prospect (one very close to buying) back to an early-stage prospect (one without intent, and therefore a long way from buying). What happened – what went wrong – was the proposal. The prospect had made up his mind to proceed with you and then in asking you for a proposal they actually requested time to reconsider. And you granted it.

Presenting Proposals

Proposals are the words that come out of your mouth. The document is the contract. The paper is the place to sign; it is not the place for convincing. Business owners looking for services are conditioned to ask for proposals, and ask they do. A late-stage prospect that is engaged in a consultative process to determine whether or not it makes sense to do business with you does not need a written proposal. They need to know that you understand their problem and know how to help. They need an understanding of how you are going to proceed, and knowledge of how much it will cost and how long it will take. Then they need to commit. The document’s job is not to convince them to agree – that’s your job and it’s a job that needs to be done first, before the document even hits the table. The role of the document – a contract – is to increase the level of commitment.

Now, however, be aware that I am not dismissing the written proposal as a necessary evil sometimes. There are situations where a client just “needs it in writing” or you know that personally you cannot just quote a price right there on the spot. In that situation, the proposal should still be an afterthought and the client should still have at least verbalized a commitment. BUT the written proposal should never be used for convincing the client to use your services.

Levels of Gaining Commitment

First get a verbal commitment. “Shall we do this?” Only once you get a verbal commitment do you request the next, the written commitment. In other words, the paper comes out only after an agreement has been reached.

“Great. Sign here,” you say after you’ve received a verbal commitment. In truth it’s a little more than sign here. Take a few minutes to review the details of the contract, including the services being offered, the budget, timeline, and your terms and conditions.

Buyers’ remorse sets in even before the prospect buys, and then it reappears shortly after they’ve committed. Your prospect is never more vulnerable to feelings of doubt than between the moment they decide to take action and the moment they part with money. Momentum is everything and time is your enemy. You want to ensure there is as little time as possible between proposal and commitment.

Conversations Instead of Proposals

Remember that your objective in putting the contract on the table is to get a written commitment, which is an important psychological step in helping the prospect progress toward solving their problem. Your contract should be short and should not be intimidating in its level of detail. If you need the assistance of a lawyer to write your contract, then your client will likely need a lawyer to sign it. Keep the contract as short as possible so that you can get a signature in the closing meeting. If you need to reposition the initial signed agreement as a more simple letter of intent or memorandum of understanding and follow-up afterward with a more comprehensive agreement that will involve lawyers and purchasing departments, that’s fine. Know your audience and know the level of agreement and detail they’ll be able to commit to and then prepare accordingly.

A New Dialogue

Now that you are considering getting out of the proposal writing business you’re probably imagining what those get me a proposal conversations sound like.

“Get me a proposal.”

“Okay, here’s my proposal. I propose to (fill in the blank)”

“Great. Write it up.”

“I’d be happy to write up a contract for your signature if you’re telling me that we have an agreement. Do we?”

“No, we don’t. I need something to show my boss.”

“I want you to understand that we’re not in the proposal writing business. Here’s what I’m willing to do. I’ll agree to invest in the presentation of a proposal to you and your boss. In exchange all I ask is that at the end of the meeting we agree on whether or not to move forward on my proposal.”

Expert businesses write contracts that get signed, order-taker businesses write proposals that sit on shelves. Let your competition write the proposals. You get the signature!

* Maria L. Novak Dugan is president of Marketing Solutions & Business Development, a firm in West Chester, PA, offering creative marketing services and goal implementation for small & medium sized businesses. For more information, contact Maria at 610-405-0633 or MariaNovak001@yahoo.com or visit www.Maria-L-Novak.com

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About Maria Novak Dugan

Maria L. Novak Dugan is president of Marketing Solutions & Business Development, a firm serving Pennsylvania, Delaware, and Maryland, offering creative marketing services and goal implementation for small businesses. She has more than 30 years’ experience in the Marketing & Sales Industry ... 13 of those as the sole sales representative for a Pennsylvania payroll company growing their client base by over 500%. Maria Novak Dugan is also the former Managing Director of the Delaware Chapter of eWomenNetwork. Creating, developing, and conducting this division of a national organization strengthened her knowledge of networking, event planning, fundraising, and small-business development. For more information, contact Maria at 610-405-0633 or Maria@Maria-L-Novak.com or visit www.Maria-L-Novak.com

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