James Howell, an easy going friend to all, a devoted animal lover and a ladies' man died after a short skirmish with cancer on Nov. 21 at the age of 69 in his home in Avondale.
Once he realized the fight was futile, he chose the good folks at Willow Tree Hospice to ensure he could enjoy as many of his final days as possible sitting outside, watching the birds and petting his cats.
Jim overcame many, many obstacles in life. If the philosopher Nietzsche was correct in saying that which doesn't kill us, will make us stronger, then Jim was one of the strongest people we knew. Just one example of his life's hardships includes growing up hungry at times. However, being hungry may stimulate artistic abilities. While living in Chadds Ford and attending the local elementary school, he somehow managed to be given a few art lessons by Andrew Wyeth. Jim submitted a painting to his school's art contest and won. The contest was judged by Wyeth, so he may have had an inside track. Thanks posthumously Mr. Wyeth.
As a young man, Uncle Sam insisted he join his Army and there were days when he wished he didn't have an Uncle Sam and had never opened his letter. Still, someone had to serve during the Vietnam War and so he persevered and was honorably discharged. Goodbye Uncle Sam.
Jim could always attract women. He had three wives, several live in partners and other women friends. His favorite lady friend was an accomplished belly dancer, who performed for friends and family with a minimum of encouragement. Thanks Marlene!
Jim spent 42 years working hard as a machine operator. At his retirement, he was given a plaque to honor "the man, the myth and the legend.” He was never heard wishing he had worked more, but he did miss his friends and wishes them nothing but the best. Thanks Dominic.
Jim had a good sense of humor and laughed often. He laughed the most when he was playing the slots at Delaware Park, even though the odds were stacked against him. As a frequent visitor he was "comped" with free slot dollars and food. Never was a man made happier with so little, so the joke was on the casino. Thanks John for taking him to the casino and doing the many other things that eased his final days.
In his later years, a "soldier" who believed in Jehovah and wanted to witness knocked on his door. Jim soon was a true believer and brooked no transgression of a strict moral code. He attended Kingdom Hall in Chatham where he experienced many kindnesses. Thank you Herschel and many others.
Jim chose to forego a viewing and traditional burial and so, per his wishes, his ashes were strewn in his chosen places. He hopes you will remember to laugh often, love generously and remain loyal to your family and friends until hell freezes over or sometime thereabouts.
Online condolences may be made by visiting www.griecocares.com
Arrangements by the Kuzo & Grieco Funeral Home in Kennett Square.
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