November 12, 2017

Nancy Ellen Dowling of Chadds Ford

Nancy Ellen Dowling (Lynch), 74, of Chadds Ford, died Thursday, Nov. 9.

Nancy leaves her beloved husband Jerry, daughter Kathy, son-in-law Ralph and grandchildren John and Colleen with many treasured memories of her smile, sparkling blue eyes and contagious laughter. She was known for her extraordinary sense of humor, playfulness, zest for life and quick wit, as well as for her poetry, artwork and amazing brownies. Nancy loved to travel and had an adventurous spirit, but she most enjoyed simply spending time with family and friends. With her compassion and loving kindness, she helped countless others overcome their challenges. She herself faced any challenge with grace, strength and good humor. Nancy embodied the quote “Live well, Laugh often, Love much.” She accomplished all three exceptionally well.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, Nov. 18, at St. Thomas the Apostle, 430 Valleybrook Road, Glen Mills, PA  19342 with visitation from 9:15 – 10:15 a.m. followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10:30 a.m.  A private burial will be held at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, it is requested that memorials be gifted in Nancy’s name to Dr. Susan Love Research Foundation or to a charity of the donor’s choosing.

 

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Patricia (Patty) Redifer of Kennett Square

Patricia (Patty) Redifer, 81, of Kennett Square, died Sunday, Nov. 5. She was the wife of Rea Redifer, who died in 2008, and with whom she shared 46 years of marriage.

Patricia Redifer

Patty was born on Sept. 20, 1936. Raised in Boothwyn, she moved to Chadds Ford in the 1960s before moving to Kennett Square in 1981.

She was the only child of the late J. Howard and the late Virginia Moore Patterson.

She worked for John Milner Associates in West Chester for more than 30 years before retiring in 2002. Patty enjoyed going to see KATS productions especially when her granddaughter Hadley and Chris Ramsey were performing. She also enjoyed gardening, lilacs, cooking, peanut butter cups, laughing and being with her family and friends, especially her grandchildren. She was a gifted singer and a loving friend.

She is survived by her three daughters, Wendy Neel and her husband James of Kennett Square, Heather Ramsey of Kennett Square, and Andrea Hunt and her husband David of Pittsgrove, N.J. She adored her eight grandchildren Tara, Max, Kristin, Kit, Nick, Eliza, Ben and Hadley and her great-granddaughter Maya. She will forever be carried in all their hearts. Patty is further survived and missed by her niece, nephews and beloved sister in law Lorraine Sherman.

A celebration of Life will be held at a later date.

In memory of Patty, a contribution may be made to KATS Kennett Amateur Theatrical Society, P.O. box 673, Kennett Square, PA 19348. To view her online tribute and share a memory with her family visit www.griecocares.com.

Arrangements by the Kuzo & Grieco Funeral Home, Kennett Square.

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Rabbinic Reflections: The importance of learning

It seemed normal until it was remarkable. I knew Jews in the South often went to Episcopal private schools, much the way Jews attend Friends schools in this area. I knew because I was one of them, a proud graduate of St. John’s School. I was just another example of some narrative connection between Jews and education. Five years ago, though, my story was no longer a data point; five years ago, I discovered there was something more to the story.

In a room of about 20 rabbis from various Jewish movements (Orthodox, Conservative, Reform, Reconstructionist, and more), four of us slowly found each other. Each breakout session during our fellowship training in an office on the East Side of Manhattan meant another connection made. By the end of our cohort conference, it was clear that 20 percent of those rabbinic fellows grew up in Texas, each in a different city, and each graduating from the Episcopal (or close to it) private school in those cities: St. Stephen’s in Austin; St. Mary’s Hall in San Antonio; St. John’s in Houston; and Greenhill in Dallas. Suddenly, what each of us had seen as a given in our upbringing turned into a discovery.

Not only were we all Jews who had gone to similar schools (all part of the same arts and sports associations), not only were we all rabbis, we were Rabbis Without Borders fellows. We were the kind of Jews who go from elite private high schools eventually to become rabbis and to become the kind of rabbis who are deeply inclined to “use Jewish wisdom as a source of wellbeing for anyone anywhere.” Add to that seeming rarity the outsized proportion within our cohort and we appeared noteworthy.

Our stories combined to indicate that our family’s emphasis on education was not solely about rising up in a meritocratic society. We were not just going to the best schools to get into the best colleges. Or rather, even if we did go to our high schools for that reason, we left college as people for whom wisdom matters more than knowledge and for whom parochialism is a source of strength in the universal public square. Education for us was as much or more about the soul than it was about the mind.

Today is the Global Day of Jewish Learning (http://www.theglobalday.org), organized by Rabbi Adin Steinsaltz and his Aleph Society. Predicated on the idea that Jewish learning is not just for scholars, rabbis, and religious elites, the Global Day of Jewish Learning is a reminder that education is essential for everyone. This education is not about acquiring or demonstrating knowledge, that is too narrow. This education is about the joint experience of accessing a communal inheritance. The Global Day of Jewish Learning is about creating bonds between people, of connecting us across the globe and across time and breaking down walls of division.

Why is learning so important to Jews? It is not, as the anti-Semitic trope would have, that Jews are more intelligent than others; we are not. It is not just to get ahead; Einstein struggled with school and Zuckerberg dropped out. Learning is so important to Jews because it opens the door to wellbeing. Learning provides a grounding and connectedness to one’s past and to others in the present. Learning nourishes the imagination, inspires creativity, and questions the status quo. In short, learning is important because it leads to thriving.

This Global Day of Jewish Learning find something remarkable, something beautiful or ugly in keeping with this year’s theme, or study the following rabbinic teaching and begin thriving in your own way: “Learning is greater for it leads to action” (Talmud, Tractate Kiddushin, 40b).

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About Rabbi Jeremy Winaker

Rabbi Jeremy Winaker is the executive director of the Greater Philadelphia Hillel Network, responsible for West Chester University, Haverford, Bryn Mawr, and other area colleges. He is the former head of school at the Albert Einstein Academy in Wilmington and was the senior Jewish educator at the Kristol Hillel Center at the University of Delaware for four years. Rabbi Winaker lives in Delaware with his wife and three children.

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