December 1, 2010

Museum exhibit touches local family

Museum exhibit touches local family

The art history and legacy of Chadds Ford goes beyond the
names of Wyeth, Kuerner and Scarborough. The name Wells is also part of the
legacy.

Wells?

Yes, Wells, as in Peter Scoville Wells.

Wells is a Chadds Ford resident whose grandfather was Royal
Lacey Scoville, a Pittsburgh stockbroker and bond trader who became the
illustrator and writer of the snake book, “The Dream of Tom
Tompkins,” now on display at the Brandywine River Museum, along with a
series of drawings and wooden boxes used to entertain his daughter who became
Wells’ mother, Eleanor.

A snake book is one where the pages aren’t bound in the
traditional sense. They’re formed in an accordion fold.

Seeing Scoville’s work on display at the museum brings back
memories for Peter and his brother, Jonathon Wells, who donated the work to the
museum.

“Johnny and I grew up looking at these pictures and we grew
up crayoning a couple of them,” Peter Wells said.

“When we were growing up, the snake book was almost
something, not of reverence, but my mother thought it was really terrific
because it reflected the personality of her father who she was extremely fond
of,” said Jonathon Wells. The snake books were always in the drawers of the
desks. We’d pull them out occasionally. At that time, I don’t think we
attributed that much significance to them as an artistic production.”

That did change over time. Peter’s wife, Patricia, was
pondering what to do for her master’s of art thesis. As Patricia told the
story, she and Peter were in bed talking about the project when one of them
brought up the idea of using Peter’s grandfather’s work.

“We jumped out of bed and ran upstairs. We almost fought
each other to see who would get to the book first,” Patricia Wells said.

When she completed her thesis in 1999, it was the first time
the book was seen in public.

There was another event for the book. In 1985, there was a
propane explosion at the Wells’ home. Somehow the book came out unscathed,
without suffering fire, smoke or water damage.

Scoville took inspiration from stories such as “Alice in
Wonderland,” “Through the Looking Glass” and others. His story deals with Tom
and a giant snake that seizes 35 different creatures. With the pages displayed
end-to-end, the snake is 44 feet long.

The exhibit, with 38 of Scoville’s works, is part of the
museum’s annual Brandywine Christmas that also features the O-gauge train
display, critter ornaments and a Victorian dollhouse. It runs through January
9.

About Rich Schwartzman

Rich Schwartzman has been reporting on events in the greater Chadds Ford area since September 2001 when he became the founding editor of The Chadds Ford Post. In April 2009 he became managing editor of ChaddsFordLive. He is also an award-winning photographer.

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Blogging Along the Brandywine: A dollar for your thoughts

I’m back!

The dog didn’t eat my homework, but I moved and got married
and sort of left this space open during the insanity. Sorry—my bad.

So, I’ve recently discovered a rather well kept shopping
secret that until now was not available to those of us living in the more
affluent areas of Chadds Ford and the greater Brandywine Valley. Lean closer
and I’ll tell you…Dollar Stores.

OK, I know, you certainly wouldn’t be caught dead in one.
You might see homeless people or worse yet be seen by one of your neighbors.

Well, dollar stores have come to our neighborhoods.

I first ventured into a dollar store on Chincoteague Island,
Va. one rainy October morning a few years ago. I mean, what can you do on
Chincoteague Island when it rains? Chincoteague has both a Family Dollar Store
and a Dollar General Store, because after the tourists leave in September the
island is still a sleepy little fishing village. Plus the island is way too
small to support a Target or Wal-Mart anyway.

But while there, I was pleasantly surprised at the
brand-name household items I was seeing for next to nothing, and filled my
shopping cart with supplies for the winter.

Well guess what’s just opened in the Westtown Village at
Routes 926 and 202?

It’s called $1 Town and is located between Pet Kraze and
Pizza Peddler.

It’s clean, modern, organized and owned by a lovely young
couple, Pratixa and Suvas Pandya. And those shoppers wearing the Eddie Bauer
quilted vests over their L.L. Bean turtlenecks are probably your neighbors.

First off, do not…and I repeat, do not buy any rolls of holiday wrapping paper or gift bags until
you’ve looked here first. The quality you will find at $1 Town is as good or
better than you’ll find anywhere and it’s only $1 a roll.

Coming to the snacks and canned goods aisles, I looked for
the telltale expiration dates.

Another big surprise: Potato chips had expirations dates of
May 2011; applesauce- May 2011; ketchup- December 2012 and canned tuna-
December 2012! Nothing was even near being out-dated.

And there was more: salad dressing, spaghetti, pancake mix,
brownie mix, trash bags, freezer bags, aluminum foil, plastic food storage,
boutique-style facial tissue, shower soap and shampoo in great designer bottles
and the list goes on.

And for you guys:
cable ties, speaker wire, two-way signal splitters, long-nose pliers and
several styles of really awesome-looking screw drivers along with a lot of
basic car-care products.

According to Suvas, 90 percent of their merchandise is only
$1. In fact he loses money on some of the items. The few items listing for over
$1 are plainly marked. Suvas smiled and said he actually had to raise the
prices on some of the items to make the customers more comfortable.

Just five minutes north in the West Goshen Shopping Center
between Famous Shoes and the Chester County Book Company is Dollar or Two. A
little larger than $1 Town it carries much of the same merchandise.

And you know those little reading glasses you normally buy
for $12- $16? Yeah, you guessed it. $1. I’m always losing mine anyway so why
pay more?

So go ahead, give $1 Town a try. And I promise, you don’t
have to go in wearing a big hat and dark glasses—really!

About Sally Denk Hoey

Sally Denk Hoey, is a Gemini - one part music and one part history. She holds a masters degree cum laude from the School of Music at West Chester University. She taught 14 years in both public and private school. Her CD "Bard of the Brandywine" was critically received during her almost 30 years as a folk singer. She currently cantors masses at St Agnes Church in West Chester where she also performs with the select Motet Choir. A recognized historian, Sally serves as a judge-captain for the south-east Pennsylvania regionals of the National History Day Competition. She has served as president of the Brandywine Battlefield Park Associates as well as the Sanderson Museum in Chadds Ford where she now curates the violin collection. Sally re-enacted with the 43rd Regiment of Foot and the 2nd Pennsylvania Regiment for 19 years where she interpreted the role of a campfollower at encampments in Valley Forge, Williamsburg, Va., Monmouth, N.J. and Lexington and Concord, Mass. Sally is married to her college classmate, Thomas Hoey, otherwise known as "Mr. Sousa.”

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Mind Matters:Stress Is a Family Matter

Quite a while ago, I attended a
meeting in Delaware in which the presenters were an entire family who had
undergone the severe depression and suicide attempt of the father years before.
They were to enlighten the audience about how they managed their journey
through father’s battle with mental illness. 

As a psychologist and family
therapist, I was astounded at their lack of insight about their own family
system. They were presenting their “ordeal with Dad” all over the country and
throughout the media supposedly to help other families gain an understanding
into the issues of mental health.

However, their own
understanding appeared to be limited by not seeing the broader family system
picture. Actually, the now late teen and early adult children seemed to have
more of a handle of how they affected one another than the parents had of how
they affected the children.

Mother related that, oh Dad’s
suicide attempt didn’t affect our son as much as the girls because he was such
a youngster and they were teenagers and so knew more of what was going on. A
little junction in the talk, son piped up that he himself had been hospitalized
for depression when he became a teenager. No connection was made that indeed
the youngest child of the family was affected by the tension and stress of the
father’s illness and loss of work, and that perhaps his own depression was a
delayed reaction to the quiet trauma he endured earlier in life.

We are too quick to reduce
events to innate biological factors than to the effect of the system and the
environment on our very genetics. (Epigenetics is the burgeoning field which
links how stressors in the environment, e.g., the family can effect gene
functions—these are not genetic mutations but more like an on/off switch for
certain mechanisms.)

The bottom line is that the
stress of the parents can have a direct stressful effect on the children.
Children are emotional barometers for the feeling states of parents. Nothing
needs to be spoken for the emotional transfer to occur. (The hot pot doesn’t
have to speak to the cold pot for the heat transfer to occur!)

Recently, the American
Psychological Association (APA) conducted the 2010 Stress In America survey.
The findings sound the warning that chronic stress can have a profound impact
on not only parents but also their children.

One-third of the parents
surveyed noted that they experienced extreme stress. The survey of the children’s
perception of their stress levels indicated that parents in general are
underestimating “both how much stress their children are experiencing as well
as the impact their own stress has on their children.” The APA survey’s
conclusion is that parental stress level has a far more reaching effect on the
children and teens of the family than many parents have assumed.

“Even though children know when
their parents are stressed and admit that it directly affects them, parents are
grossly underestimating the impact that their stress is having on their
children,” says psychologist Katherine C. Nordal, Ph.D., APA’s exectutive
director for professional practice. “It’s critical that parents communicate
with their children about how to identify stress triggers and manage stress in
healthy ways while they’re young and still developing behavioral patterns. If
children don’t learn these lessons early on, it could significantly impact
their physical health and emotional well-being down the road, especially as
they become adults.”

There are so many stressors in
our lives these days. If we’re fortunate to be working, there is the stress of
work. And for those who have lost their jobs, the stress is worse. Somehow
through all the stressors, parents can take heed that their stress reverberates
throughout the family system. This is not about blame but about
acknowledgment—so action can be taken to find ways to de-stress the family with
little or no cost:

Go for a family walk in a state
park (Ridley Creek, for example).

Turn off the TV and play
Scrabble or charades together.

Learn some form of meditation
and relaxation, guided imagery (kids love guided imagery)

Breathe!

Links for more information:

·
http://www.stressinamerica.org

·
http://www.APAhelpcenter.org

* Kayta
Curzie Gajdos holds a doctorate in counseling psychology and is in private
practice in Chadds Ford, Pennsylvania. She welcomes comments at
MindMatters@DrGajdos.com or (610)388-2888. Past columns are posted to
www.drgajdos.com.

About Kayta Gajdos

Dr. Kathleen Curzie Gajdos ("Kayta") is a licensed psychologist (Pennsylvania and Delaware) who has worked with individuals, couples, and families with a spectrum of problems. She has experience and training in the fields of alcohol and drug addictions, hypnosis, family therapy, Jungian theory, Gestalt therapy, EMDR, and bereavement. Dr. Gajdos developed a private practice in the Pittsburgh area, and was affiliated with the Family Therapy Institute of Western Psychiatric Institute and Clinic, having written numerous articles for the Family Therapy Newsletter there. She has published in the American Psychological Association Bulletin, the Family Psychologist, and in the Swedenborgian publications, Chrysalis and The Messenger. Dr. Gajdos has taught at the college level, most recently for West Chester University and Wilmington College, and has served as field faculty for Vermont College of Norwich University the Union Institute's Center for Distance Learning, Cincinnati, Ohio. She has also served as consulting psychologist to the Irene Stacy Community MH/MR Center in Western Pennsylvania where she supervised psychologists in training. Currently active in disaster relief, Dr. Gajdos serves with the American Red Cross and participated in Hurricane Katrina relief efforts as a member of teams from the Department of Health and Human Services' Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration.Now living in Chadds Ford, in the Brandywine Valley of eastern Pennsylvania, Dr. Gajdos combines her private practice working with individuals, couples and families, with leading workshops on such topics as grief and healing, the impact of multigenerational grief and trauma shame, the shadow and self, Women Who Run with the Wolves, motherless daughters, and mediation and relaxation. Each year at Temenos Retreat Center in West Chester, PA she leads a griefs of birthing ritual for those who have suffered losses of procreation (abortions, miscarriages, infertility, etc.); she also holds yearly A Day of Re-Collection at Temenos.Dr. Gajdos holds Master's degrees in both philosophy and clinical psychology and received her Ph.D. in counseling at the University of Pittsburgh. Among her professional affiliations, she includes having been a founding member and board member of the C.G. Jung Educational Center of Pittsburgh, as well as being listed in Who's Who of American Women. Currently, she is a member of the American Psychological Association, The Pennsylvania Psychological Association, the Delaware Psychological Association, the American Family Therapy Academy, The Association for Death Education and Counseling, and the Delaware County Mental Health and Mental Retardation Board. Woven into her professional career are Dr. Gajdos' pursuits of dancing, singing, and writing poetry.

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Adopt-a-Pet Dec. 2

Adopt-a-Pet Dec. 2

Momma is an adult spayed female domestic short hair cat that
is available for adoption through the Chester
County SPCA. Momma came to the shelter as a stray on August 3. Her finders believe that her previous
owners moved and left her behnid.
Momma is a sweet and affectionate girl who enjoys attention. She also
enjoys laying in laps and kneading with her paws. If you are able to provide Momma a loving
home, visit the Chester County SPCA at 1212 Phoenixville Pike in West Goshen or
call 610-692-6113. Momma’s registration number is 96800612. Momma is eligible
for our Eagles Purrfect Play for Cats adoption incentive program. This special
program, made possible through a gift from the Philadelphia Eagles Treating
Animals With Kindness (TAWK) program, allows the Chester County SPCA to offer a
discounted adoption fee of only $25 for all special needs cats or cats over the
age of 5! The Spayed Club is
offering a low cost spay/neuter transport clinic to the Chester County
community on Thursday, December 9. This clinic is open to all cats and male
dogs. Appointments need to be made
directly with The Spayed Club Spay/Neuter Clinic no later than Tuesday,
December 7 by calling 484-540-8436. To look at some of the other animals
available for adoption, visit the shelter or log onto www.ccspca.org.

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First Person Singular: Taking a wiki leak on government lies

Much of the news regarding WikiLeaks and its latest release
of sensitive to classified documents got me thinking of the SR-71
reconnaissance aircraft.

My encounter with the plane came in the spring of 1970 when
I pulled temporary duty to Okinawa. It was part of a three-month tour for my
bomb wing. Some planes and personnel went to Anderson Air Base on Guam while
the rest went to Kadena on Okinawa.

We newbies to Kadena were on a bus going to a briefing when,
as we were crossing the flight line, the NCO in charge suddenly said, “
Gentlemen, what you are about to see does not exist.”

Out the window we look and here comes an SR-71 taxiing
toward the runway. One of the guys I worked with said he thought the plane
looked like two fighter planes connected by a rocket. Not too far from
accurate.

The plane was a superfast high altitude espionage craft,
super top secret. Nobody could know it was there. Nobody?

Okinawans would stand on the road, off-base, at the end of
the runway and take photos of the plane taking off; Soviet trawlers, spy
vessels actually, were in the South China Sea monitoring B-52 takeoffs; in
downtown Koza City (the town outside the base), stores sold plastic models of
the bird.

Then there were the ground crews who worked on the SR. They
nicknamed it Habu, after the Okinawan snake. One night several of them got
pretty well liquored up, had a stamp made up and on every bar and brothel they
frequented stamped the walls with “Habu Approved.”

Nobody was allowed to know the plane was there? How ‘bout
everybody but the American public was allowed to know?

Such was the case. The Soviets, Chinese, Ho Chi Minh and the
VC could know, but not my parents or sister. I wasn’t allowed to tell them
because the information was classified. You and yours weren’t allowed to know
either.

So now comes Wikileaks.

Why did the federal government think Americans—or anyone
else for that matter—couldn’t know that Saudi citizens are the biggest backers
of al-Qaeda? That the U.S. wanted to get enriched uranium away from Pakistan?
That Saudi Arabia and Bahrain wanted the U.S. to take out Iran’s nuclear
capacity for them?

Despite the Chicken Little reaction from pundits and
politicians that the release of this material kills people, no Americans have
been killed because of any material that the site released. All information
released came after the fact. Troop deployments and other pre-action information
have been secure. The current release is little more than a public
embarrassment to Washington.

As Nancy Yousef, writing for the McClatchy newspapers said,
“Despite similar warnings before the previous two releases of classified U.S.
intelligence reports by the Web site, U.S. officials concede that they have no
evidence to date that the documents led to anyone’s death.”

Also note that no one is disputing the accuracy of the
material WikiLeaks posted.

But, if keeping classified material secure is that important,
how come a lowly private, Pfc. Bradley Manning, had so much unsupervised access
to such sensitive material? According to reports, the man downloaded thousands
of pages of classified material and sent them to Wikileaks. Shouldn’t an
officer or senior NCO have been supervising him for at least most of the time?

Pfc. Manning faces up to 52 years in a federal prison if
found guilty of releasing information that shows how foolish, misguided and
cruel those in government and the military can be.

In previous information Manning provided, a video showed
U.S. military helicopter crews firing on unarmed civilians—including
children—then joking about Iraqis bringing children to a firefight.

What WikiLeaks did is not a crime. It, like other media, can
release and print whatever information is received. If the information released
showed the government to be stupid, incompetent or dishonest, so much the
better.

Recall, please, that President Lyndon Johnson committed U.S.
ground troops to Vietnam based on a lie regarding an incident in the Gulf of
Tonkin. The American people were told in 1964 that North Vietnamese gunboats
attacked the USS Maddox in international water. That was a lie. The Maddox and
smaller US patrol boats encroached into North Vietnamese waters and raided
facilities on the mainland. The North Vietnamese were responding to our attack.
We struck first and illegally, but Johnson and others in his administration
lied to us.

Had there been a Pfc. Manning and a Wikileaks then, maybe
more than 50,000 of my peers would still be alive.

If government lies, then we need the truth to come out from
some other source. If it takes a Pfc. Manning and a WikiLeaks, so be it. Truth
is preferable to lies.

About Rich Schwartzman

Rich Schwartzman has been reporting on events in the greater Chadds Ford area since September 2001 when he became the founding editor of The Chadds Ford Post. In April 2009 he became managing editor of ChaddsFordLive. He is also an award-winning photographer.

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Police log for Dec. 2

• Pennsylvania State Police are looking for two people in
connection with a robbery at the Acme in the Concordville Towne Center on Nov.
26. Police said a white male with a black mustache and a black female fled the
scene in a tan Chrysler Town and Country after the pair allegedly stole a purse
from a 60-year-old woman from Glen Mills. The victim was loading groceries into
her car when the suspects drove up and stole the purse from the woman’s
shopping cart, the report said.

• A 40-year-old from West Chester was charged with
aggravated assault on a law enforcement officer during a skirmish at the man’s
20th class reunion. According to a police report, Matthew Wade
Huston was acting in a “tumultuous” manner at the reunion held at the Concordville
Inn on Nov. 28. He was asked to leave after he assaulted and harassed three
bartenders, the report said, but he refused. Police were called, but Huston
allegedly refused to cooperate and struck one of the troopers. He also faces
charges of simple assault, resisting arrest, harassment, persistent disorderly
conduct and public drunkenness, the report said.

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17 Killed, 348 Injured in Holiday Crashes Investigated by State Police

Seventeen
people were killed and 348 others were injured in the 1,101 crashes
investigated by Pennsylvania State Police during the five-day Thanksgiving
holiday driving period, Commissioner Frank E. Pawlowski announced.

Pawlowski
said 79 of the crashes to which troopers responded from Nov. 24-28 were
alcohol-related, including six crashes involving one or more fatalities. Pawlowski noted that 11 of those who
died were not wearing seat belts.

Pawlowski
said that troopers made 412 arrests for driving under the influence and issued
7,412 speeding citations during the holiday period. State police also cited 922
persons for failure to wear seat belts and issued citations to 72 drivers for
failing to restrain children properly in child safety seats.

During
last year’s Thanksgiving holiday driving period, three people were killed and
303 others were injured in 886 crashes investigated by state police.

The
crash numbers cover only those incidents investigated by state police and do
not include statistics on crashes to which other law-enforcement agencies
responded.

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