January 15, 2023

Marian Szymanski Pitts of West Grove

Marian Szymanski Pitts (a.k.a GiGi, Sissy), 89, of West Grove, died peacefully Saturday, Jan. 7, at Brinton Manor Nursing and Rehabilitation Center in Concord Township. She was the wife of the late Albert S. Pitts, with whom she shared 63 years of marriage. Born in Philadelphia, she was the daughter of the late James and Catherine Szymanski.

Marian Szymanski Pitts

Marian was the consummate homemaker, raising four children of her own and doting over 13 grandchildren and 16 great-grandchildren. She was also tasked with keeping her energetic entrepreneurial husband in check.

Survivors include one daughter, Christine Broderick and her husband Daniel of Glen Mills; three sons, James Pitts and his wife Debra of West Chester; Thomas Pitts and his wife Loretta of Rio Grande, N.J.; Kenneth Pitts and his wife Brenda of New London; 13 grandchildren, Michael, Matthew, Lindsay, Julie, Jennifer, Jacqueline, Tracey, Marc, Nicole, Zachary, Kyle, Annie, and Jake; and 16 great-grandchildren Lily, Ethan, Desmond, Nolan, Luna, Henry, Sagan, Evan, Lucy, Harper, Leah, Naomi, Luke, Molly, Marco, and Isabella

All are invited to visit with Marian’s family and friends from 11 a.m. – noon on Monday, Jan. 16, at the Episcopal Church of the Advent, 401 N Union Street, Kennett Square, PA 19348. Her memorial service will follow at noon. Interment will be private. Contributions in her memory may be made to S.I.L.O https://oxfordsilo.com/get-involved/donate/

Arrangements are by Matthew Grieco of Grieco Funeral Home & Crematory, Inc. (484-734-8100).  To view the online obituary, please visit www.griecofunerals.com

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Donald Harkey, formerly of Chadds Ford

Donald Harkey, 93, a longtime resident of the Chadds Ford and Wilmington areas, died Wednesday, Dec. 14 at the home of his son, Stephen E. Harkey.

Donald Harkey

Born in Charlotte, N.C. in 1929, Don was the son of the late Jack L. and Mary Austin Harkey. He was a graduate of North Carolina State University and served in the U.S. Air Force during the Korean War. He retired in 1985 after a career of more than thirty years in technical, marketing and management positions with the DuPont Company.

In retirement, he worked as a management consultant and served on the boards of several community and church-related organizations. He was an active and dedicated member of St. Paul’s United Methodist Church in Wilmington, and St. Matthews by the Sea in Fenwick Island, Del.

Don is survived by his wife of 71 years Peggy Outen Harkey, daughter Catherine Harkey Cobb and her husband Michael of Salisbury, N.C, son Greg Harkey and his wife Heather of Roanoke, Va. and son Steve Harkey and his wife Joyce of Fair Hill, Md. Don and Peggy were blessed with nine grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren.

Family will gather for a private interment ceremony at Delaware Veterans Memorial Cemetery in Millsboro, Del.

Published by Charlotte Observer on Jan. 14, 2023.

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Preserving Hope: Examine your walk

I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.” (Ephesians 4:1–3, ESV)

I love the image of “walking” for the Christian life in Ephesians 4:1. Paul could have used the word “exist” or “subsist.” He could have used the word “run” or “sprint.” He could have used the word “stand” or “sit.” Those aren’t bad words for the Christian life, but he chose “walk.” It means we’re not moving backward or staying in the same position. Instead, we’re putting one foot in front of the other as we follow Christ.

But notice how this passage calls us to walk: “…in a manner worthy of the calling to which we have been called.” You can think of this as a spiritual uniform. Science has demonstrated that uniforms change the way an employee behaves and feels about his work. For example, one website says, “By wearing uniforms, they not only identify themselves with the business, but they also serve as the brand ambassadors and the face of the company. This can both empower and motivate them to serve customers more professionally.”[1] It’s the same with the Christian life! We have put on the Lord Jesus Christ and are identified with Christ through faith so that we represent him in the world. And that’s why the great reformer, Martin Luther, says that we should answer “all temptations of Satan with this only…I am a Christian.”[2]

But what does it look like to walk as a Christian? Look at verses 1-3 again: “I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.” (Ephesians 4:1–3, ESV)

  1. First, we are called to walk with “all humility.” That’s the opposite of pride! And commentators point out that, in Greco-Roman society, this word was always used in a pejorative sense. It was coined as a virtue only in Christian literature. That’s because it’s a uniquely Christian virtue.
  2. But second, we are also called to walk with “all gentleness.” That’s the opposite of being harsh and unpleasant. It’s one of the fruits of the Spirit and is defined like this: “the quality of not being overly impressed by a sense of one’s self-importance”[3]And that’s how we should walk if we are truly called. A true Christian should be gentle and kind to his wife and kids. He should be gentle and kind to the waiter and the hedge clipper. His life should be marked by true Spirit-wrought gentleness.
  3. But third, we are also called to walk with patience. That’s the opposite of impatience. It’s defined as the “state of remaining tranquil while awaiting an outcome.”[4] And I love the way it’s rendered in the old King James Bible – “long-suffering.” Be long-suffering as you wait for that diagnosis, long-suffering as you deal with sickness in your body, long-suffering as you pray for a child who has walked away from the faith, and long-suffering with that member of the church who is hard to love.
  4. But fourth, we are also called to “bear with one another in love.” That’s the opposite of giving up on people. It’s a wonderful image of what the church should look like. We should bear with one another in love. Who are you called to bear within love today? Who are you tempted to give up on? Remember that giving up on people is contrary to the calling to which we have been called.

In all, this is how we are called to walk by grace alone through faith alone in Christ alone for God’s glory alone.

[1] https://cobmex.com/top-5-benefits-of-a-corporate-uniform-program/#:~:text=Customer%20Satisfaction&text=By%20wearing%20uniforms%2C%20they%20not,in%20a%20more%20professional%20manner.

[2] John Trapp, Trapp’s Commentary on the New Testament (Baker Book House, 2010), 762.

[3] William Arndt et al., A Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament and Other Early Christian Literature(Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 2000), 861.

[4] Ibid., 612.

About Will Stern

Originally from Colorado, Will Stern is the pastor of Hope Presbyterian Church in Garnet Valley. He majored in violin performance for his undergrad and taught violin for a number of years before being called into ministry. He studied theology at Duke University and Westminster Theological Seminary.

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