September 1, 2010

Guest editorial: Persecuting a conciliator

If a YMCA or a YMHA were planned for 51 Park Place in Lower
Manhattan, two blocks from the Twin Towers’ former site, who would have
noticed?

Instead, the equivalent of a Muslim Y (without the implied
male exclusivity) is to be built there. What’s the big deal?

There can be only one answer: Consciously or not, a majority
of Americans believe all American Muslims are associated with the 9/11 attacks
on the World Trade Center. Although the U.S. government position is that the
attacks were perpetrated not by Islam but rather by fanatics who warped the
religion, the opposition to Cordoba House, now known as Park51, shows that most
Americans don’t believe it. They hold all Muslims responsible. That’s
disgraceful collective guilt based on religion.

Just when one thinks that politics can’t sink any deeper
into the sewage, conservatives and Republicans come along to prove one wrong.
Who cares what Newt Gingrich, Rush Limbaugh, and their ilk really think about
the Islamic cultural center (not a mosque) located two vision-obstructed blocks
from (not at) Ground Zero? What counts is that they are eager to exploit
Americans’ ignorant fears for political advantage. Gingrich, ever the pseudo
intellectual, suggests that Nazis would not be permitted to build a center near
the Holocaust Museum. He hopes you’ll not realize that (1) the developers of
Park51 aren’t Nazis or supporters of al-Qaeda, and (2) they own the property on
which the center is to be built.

Fanatical Christians and Jews have killed many innocent
people, believing they were doing God’s will. Reasonable people do not hold
Christianity and Judaism culpable for those crimes. Why the double standard
with Muslims? Several million Muslims live peacefully in the United States.
What more needs to be said?

It takes only minutes on the Internet to learn there are
different Muslim traditions. Feisal Abdul Rauf, director of Park51, is no bin
Ladenite. As William Dalrymple writes, Rauf “is one of America’s leading
thinkers of Sufism, the mystical form of Islam, which in terms of goals and
outlook couldn’t be farther from the violent Wahhabism of the jihadists. His
videos and sermons preach love … and reconciliation…. But in the eyes of
Osama bin Laden and the Taliban, he is an infidel-loving, grave-worshiping
apostate; they no doubt regard him as a legitimate target for assassination.”

Moreover, Rauf’s mainstream credentials are indisputable.
President Bush used to send him on goodwill missions to the Middle East.
President Obama continues to so. Rauf was invited to speak at the memorial
service for Daniel Pearl, the Jewish reporter for the Wall Street Journal whom
jihadists brutally murdered. In his remarks, Rauf said, “We are here to assert
the Islamic conviction of the moral equivalency of our Abrahamic faiths. If to
be a Jew means to say with all one’s heart, mind, and soul … hear O Israel,
the Lord our God, the Lord is One, not only today I am a Jew, I have always
been one, Mr. Pearl. If to be a Christian is to love the Lord our God with all
of my heart, mind, and soul, and to love for my fellow human being what I love
for myself, then not only am I a Christian, but I have always been one, Mr.
Pearl.”

This hardly sounds like someone with sympathy for killers of
the innocent. He is a conciliator, which makes the location near Ground Zero
especially appropriate. We don’t have to agree with everything he says to
understand that.

The ignorance displayed in the opposition to Rauf cannot be
separated from the general American ignorance of U.S. foreign policy. History
did not begin on 9/11. It was the culmination of six decades of violence
against and oppression of Muslims in the Middle East, both inflicted and
sponsored by American regimes, Republican and Democrat. Predictably, that
record provoked a tiny minority to strike at innocent people nine years ago,
including many Muslims. Thankfully, not all Muslims hold all Americans
responsible for the U.S. government’s continuing aggression. What message does
it send when Americans persecute rather than applaud conciliatory Muslims?

The way to prevent another 9/11 is to change U.S. foreign
policy. The ugly reaction to Park51 shows that we have bin Laden exactly where
he wants us.

* Sheldon Richman is
senior fellow at The Future of Freedom Foundation, author of Tethered Citizens:
Time to Repeal the Welfare State, and editor of The Freeman magazine.
Visit his blog “Free Association” at www.sheldonrichman.com.
Send him email.

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Police log for Sept. 2

• Pennsylvania State Police will be conducting sobriety
checkpoints at various undisclosed locations through the Labor Day holiday
weekend.

• A purse and a Macintosh notebook computer were stolen
from a vehicle parked at the Texas Roadhouse restaurant in Concord Township
between 8 and 9:30 p.m. on Aug. 26, a state police report said. The report said
someone punched out the driver’s side lock to gain entry into the vehicle.

• Pennsylvania State Police are investigating a burglary at
Planet Honda on Aug. 15. According to a police report, a surveillance camera
shows two white males approaching on foot from an abandoned auto dealership
near the motorcycle shop. One man was wearing a dark colored hooded sweatshirt,
blue jeans and white sneakers, according to the report. The second man removed
bolts from the hinges of the rear door and entered the building as an alarm
sounded. The suspect with the dark sweatshirt entered the store and removed two
generators. Anyone with information
is asked to phone Tpr. Gerry McShea at 484-840-1000.

• Someone stole a Garmin Nuvi 255WT GPS from a vehicle
parked on Trolley Way in Pocopson Township sometime between 10:30 p.m. on Aug.
26 and 8 a.m. on Aug. 26. State police from Troop J, Avondale are
investigating.

• Police from Troop J are also investigating a burglary at
Taylor Service Center on Fairville Road in Pennsbury Township. According to a
police report, someone gained entry by breaking a window pane on the front
door, then stole numerous items. The incident happened at 2:03 a.m. on Aug. 28.

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Timing or mask, there’s an upswing in business

Timing or mask, there’s an upswing in business

What’s a business owner to do when sales are down and
government bailouts don’t trickle down to the retail level? Will a new sign or
updated Web site attract customers? How about a magic mask?

Chadds Ford Gallery owner Jackie Winthur isn’t taking any
chances.

“That mask isn’t going anywhere,” she said with more than
just a hint of a smile.

The mask, “The King of Hearts” is a papier maché creation of
artist Cliff Anderson. The artist brought two masks and some paintings to the
gallery in early July. Winther said she accepted them, but was then annoyed
with herself for the decision.

“It’s so not what we do,” she said.

One of the masks hung like a painting, but “The King of
Hearts” was more like a sculpture. Neither she nor gallery director Barbara
Moore knew exactly what to do with it so they put it on the fireplace mantle in
the front room of the gallery before deciding on how to display the piece.

Winther’s annoyance changed when sales unexpectedly turned
around.

“Foot traffic picked up, our business has gotten a whole lot
better. Internet sales have been great and Paul Scarborough has been selling
well… We can’t keep Paul’s work in stock. He walks past the mask every day,”
Winther said.

The upswing in business, she said, coincides with the mask
coming into the shop, though she also says the gallery has upgraded its Web
site, and gotten a new sign. She also thinks some of the increased traffic
might be due, in part, to people coming in after visiting the Barn House Coffee
Shop located behind the gallery in the Barn Shops.

Then again, “It does seem kind of funny that when the mask
showed up things got markedly better,” she said. “We talk to the mask. We pray
to the mask. We don’t move the mask. We’re very careful around the mask. It
seems to generate an aura and we just respect the mask. The mask isn’t leaving
here.”

Winther said people have asked to borrow it, such as a
fisherman who was in a tournament, a businessman who wanted to borrow it for
some sporting event, “But the mask is not for loan. It is so staying her.”

When asked if that meant the mask was not for sale she said,
“Well, that depends…I really can’t say whether it’s for sale now. It was
originally for sale when I first took it, but now I’m not sure if it would like
being moved.”

According to Winther the mask likes it where it is, it’s
picking up vibes.

She recognizes that people will think it’s nothing more than
coincidence and superstition. For Winther it’s a matter of fun and making her
and her employees happy and gives them encouragement.

“And it’s something to talk about. It’s just fun… And it’s
staying.”

Bill Githens, owner of the Barn House Coffee Shop said he
hadn’t seen the mask, but wants it in his shop. Why? “Because it’s fun and it’s
enlivened Jackie’s spirits. Is it timing? Is it coincidence? I don’t know, but
it’s neat regardless.”

About Rich Schwartzman

Rich Schwartzman has been reporting on events in the greater Chadds Ford area since September 2001 when he became the founding editor of The Chadds Ford Post. In April 2009 he became managing editor of ChaddsFordLive. He is also an award-winning photographer.

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Bits & Pieces for Sept. 2

• Chadds Ford Supervisors Chairman Deborah Love announced during the Sept. 1 supervisors’ meeting that the township polling place will likely change to Calvary Chapel. The change is pending approval of the county Election Bureau. ChjaddsFordLive.com will update this story as more information becomes available.

•The work of Chadds Ford artist Karl Kuerner is on display at
the Berman Museum of Art at Ursinus College through Dec. 15. An artist’s
reception at 601 East Main St. in Collegeville is planned for Sept. 26 from 2-4
p.m.

•The Brandywine Battlefield Associates group
is conducting a Remembrance Reception on Saturday, Sept. 11, to commemorate the
Revolutionary War’s Battle of Brandywine.Highlighting the event will be
the ringing of a Remembrance Bell. The bell is being driven to Chadds Ford from
New York City. The ceremony is also designed to remember the 40 innocent
victims who died on Flight 93 at Shanksville, Pennsylvania, on Sept. 11, 2001.The event will take place beginning
at 6 p.m. at the Brandywine Battlefield Park on Route 1 in Chadds Ford
Township.

• The Rachel Kohl
Community Library will have an added attraction to its information booth at the
upcoming Concord Township Community Day—back to school haircuts provided by
Salon Moxi. For a donation of $10 to the library, talented stylists will
provide haircuts to residents of all ages. The haircuts will be available from
4-6 p.m. No reservations are required. Concord Township Community Day will be held
at the township park on Smithbridge Road, Saturday, Sept. 11 from 4 p.m. until
dusk.

• The
Delaware County Kennel Club will hold its annual match on Saturday, Sept. 25 at
Newlin Mill Park on Baltimore Pike and Cheyney Road in Concord Township.
Registration for conformation will be from 9 to 9:30 a.m. with judging starting
at 10 a.m. Pre-registration is required for obedience, rally and CGC (Canine
Good Citizens). To enter in these categories contact Dee M. at 610-383-4884.
The public is invited to enjoy a day watching the canines compete in the
various categories.

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It’s back to school for U-CF district students

It’s back to school for U-CF district students

School is back in session for students of the
Unionville-Chadds Ford School District. This year offers more of the same and
something new for students.

Chadds Ford Elementary School Principal Mark Ransford said
on the first day of classes that his students would continue learning about
Spanish culture and language as the Spanish program is extended to
third-graders. Last year’s program was limited to first- and second-grade
students.

But students throughout the district will also get an education
in Chinese culture. In July, Chinese scholar Xuan Yang
arrived in the district. She will spend six weeks each in all six schools in
the district. She’ll be at CFES beginning the end of January, Ransford said.

Ransford likes the multicultural education because it
generates an appreciation for language and cultural differences.

“I find we have more similarities than differences,” he
said.

Ken Batchelor, assistant to the superintendant, said the
idea for the Chinese scholar program came after Superintendant Sharon Parker
returned from a trip to China last year.

District officials learned about a guest scholar program
through the University of Pittsburgh and the Berks County Intermediate Unit,
Batchelor said. The scholars through this program are all master’s level or
doctoral level students and teach Chinese language and share the culture, he
said.

Xuan Yang has been spending her first month
meeting with teachers and administrators to plan age appropriate grade level
appropriate lessons.

“We hope that it will provide exposure to
our students for another culture, provide exposure to our students broadening
their horizons of other languages that are out there and may open up pathways
and interests for future studies,” Batchelor said.

Superintendant Parker is pleased.

“Our staff members are delighted that Xuan
Yang is with us. She comes to us from Hanban, the Confucius Institute of China,
and what an extraordinary ambassador she is. Xuan is bright, spirited,
enthusiastic and actually spoke at our opening day program,” Parker said. “She
had us engaged. She is humor filled and everyone is just delighted to be
able to work with her.”

Yang is 28 years old and has a master’s degree.

Her first six weeks will be at Unionville Elementary. She
then goes to Hillendale Elementary School. Her time there will coincide with
the Chinese Mid Autumn Festival, Parker said. In January Yang be at Chadds Ford
Elementary for Chinese New year.

Parker said Yang is planning some evening activities so
children can share their experience with their parents.

About Rich Schwartzman

Rich Schwartzman has been reporting on events in the greater Chadds Ford area since September 2001 when he became the founding editor of The Chadds Ford Post. In April 2009 he became managing editor of ChaddsFordLive. He is also an award-winning photographer.

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Adopt-a-Pet

Adopt-a-Pet

Patty
is a 1-year-old domestic short hair white cat that is available for adoption through the Chester County SPCA. She came to the shelter
in May because her owner was moving and could not take her along. Patty is a
very sweet and playful cat who gets along with dogs and children. She loves to explore and play with her
toys.
For the entire month of September, the Chester County SPCA
is offering special adoption incentives for all of our feline residents. All
cats under the age of 3 qualify for our “More Two Love” adoption
program. Adopt one cat at the regular adoption fee of $75 and take home another
feline friend for a donation of only $10.
All of our more experienced feline residents (over the age of 3) are available
for $1 as part of our “One and Only” adoption incentive.
Patty and her friends are now looking
for a responsible care giver who will give them the love and attention they
deserve. If you are able to provide that home, visit the Chester County SPCA at
1212 Phoenixville Pike in West Goshen or call 610-692-6113. Patty’s
registration number is 96799402. To look at some of the other animals available
for adoption, visit the shelter or log onto www.ccspca.org.

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Mind Matters: Cocoons and kids, a necessary struggle

Who doesn’t
like butterflies? What we may not realize is that there is a struggle necessary
for the caterpillar to transform into that beautiful winged creature. You see,
if you made a hole in the cocoon believing that you’re helping the process,
you’d actually be hindering the butterfly’s flight. For the miraculous
transformation to occur, the caterpillar needs to do the work of creating his
own way out.

The
butterfly story may be apropos for all ages. School is back in session, so I
happened upon some teachers and asked them what are their concerns with the
start of the school year. In unison, they agreed that they worried that parents
tried too hard to make everything right for their children, not allowing the
children to struggle with little mistakes—not allowing them to find their own
resourcefulness or how to work out a problem.

As ever,
life is about finding the via media, the middle way, of careful balance. Of
course, we as parents don’t want to leave our kids in the lurch and we need to
attend to their needs, be a listening ear, monitor their behavior, be aware. On
the other hand, we as parents also need to allow our children to work at
finding their own solutions without our micro-managing interventions.

Both at home
and at school, it may be that children are not given enough opportunity to find
their own creative solutions, not only to scholastic problems, but even more so
to relationship issues. It may be that now, with more “teaching to the test,”
and lack of recess that children no long have the downtime, playtime necessary
to work out and repair rifts with classmates or arguments with friends.

Developmentally,
children need not only academic structure, but also time to develop social
skills as well. We can’t do it for our children but we can create the space and
give the environment in which the cocoon can thrive.

When we are
most in tune with our kids, are most empathic and understanding of them, we are
giving them the best nurturing environment possible. Ironically, when we are
“over-invested” (trying to make an easy way out hole in the cocoon), we are not
in tune with their best interests. Our job is to model for them. Patience in
the face of difficulties, resourcefulness and resilience in the face of
obstacles, and especially respect for self and others. We know our children
need to crawl before they walk, we know they need to stumble at first when they
do walk, so we can continue to let them meet their developmental challenges
knowing that while we cannot live their lives for them (nor should we), we can
provide them with a nourishing cocoon from which they will burst forth on their
own and in their own time.

Kayta Curzie
Gajdos holds a doctorate in counseling psychology and is in private practice in
Chadds Ford, Pennsylvania. She welcomes comments atMindMatters@DrGajdos.com or (610)388-2888. Past columns are posted towww.drgajdos.com.

About Kayta Gajdos

Dr. Kathleen Curzie Gajdos ("Kayta") is a licensed psychologist (Pennsylvania and Delaware) who has worked with individuals, couples, and families with a spectrum of problems. She has experience and training in the fields of alcohol and drug addictions, hypnosis, family therapy, Jungian theory, Gestalt therapy, EMDR, and bereavement. Dr. Gajdos developed a private practice in the Pittsburgh area, and was affiliated with the Family Therapy Institute of Western Psychiatric Institute and Clinic, having written numerous articles for the Family Therapy Newsletter there. She has published in the American Psychological Association Bulletin, the Family Psychologist, and in the Swedenborgian publications, Chrysalis and The Messenger. Dr. Gajdos has taught at the college level, most recently for West Chester University and Wilmington College, and has served as field faculty for Vermont College of Norwich University the Union Institute's Center for Distance Learning, Cincinnati, Ohio. She has also served as consulting psychologist to the Irene Stacy Community MH/MR Center in Western Pennsylvania where she supervised psychologists in training. Currently active in disaster relief, Dr. Gajdos serves with the American Red Cross and participated in Hurricane Katrina relief efforts as a member of teams from the Department of Health and Human Services' Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration.Now living in Chadds Ford, in the Brandywine Valley of eastern Pennsylvania, Dr. Gajdos combines her private practice working with individuals, couples and families, with leading workshops on such topics as grief and healing, the impact of multigenerational grief and trauma shame, the shadow and self, Women Who Run with the Wolves, motherless daughters, and mediation and relaxation. Each year at Temenos Retreat Center in West Chester, PA she leads a griefs of birthing ritual for those who have suffered losses of procreation (abortions, miscarriages, infertility, etc.); she also holds yearly A Day of Re-Collection at Temenos.Dr. Gajdos holds Master's degrees in both philosophy and clinical psychology and received her Ph.D. in counseling at the University of Pittsburgh. Among her professional affiliations, she includes having been a founding member and board member of the C.G. Jung Educational Center of Pittsburgh, as well as being listed in Who's Who of American Women. Currently, she is a member of the American Psychological Association, The Pennsylvania Psychological Association, the Delaware Psychological Association, the American Family Therapy Academy, The Association for Death Education and Counseling, and the Delaware County Mental Health and Mental Retardation Board. Woven into her professional career are Dr. Gajdos' pursuits of dancing, singing, and writing poetry.

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