July 18, 2013

Marian M. Ayers of Bear

Marian M. Ayers, 78, of Bear, Del., died Wednesday, July 17, at the St. Francis Hospital in Wilmington. She was the wife of George R. Ayers, Jr., who died in 1990.

Born in Wytheville, VA, she was the daughter of the late Robert and Arietta Kegley Smith.

She was a Cafeteria worker at the Unionville Elementary School for many years.

Marian enjoyed being with her family.

She is survived by one son, George R. Ayers  and his wife Judy of Bear; one daughter, Vickie Ayers of Bear; two brothers, Frank Smith and Earl Smith, both of Nottingham; two sisters, Trudy Titus of Peach Bottom, and Shirley Hall of Lincoln University, and two grandchildren.

You are invited to visit with her family and friends form 10 to 11 a.m. on Monday, July 22, at the Kuzo & Grieco Funeral Home, 250 West State Street, Kennett Square. Her funeral service will follow. Burial will be in Unionville Cemetery in Unionville, Pa.

Online condolences may be made by visiting www.griecocares.com

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Property owners, township butt heads

The owners of Stonebridge Mansion are saying Chadds Ford Township is improperly denying them full use of their property and have gone to the Zoning Hearing Board seeking relief. The township is contesting that position.

Stonebridge is the large property on the west side of Webb Road at the intersection of Route 1. It’s in the R-1 residential zoning district, but carries with it conditional approval for use as a Bed & Breakfast.

It’s the township’s position that no commercial use of the property, except for the limited use as a B&B, is permitted and that the current owners are trying to use the property for commercial purposes.

Owners Drew and Nicola Barnabei say the code does allow other uses, such as renting the property for weddings and various other private parties. Supervisors sent solicitor Hugh Donaghue to the hearing to contest the Barnabeis’ request.

Specifically, the Barnabeis assert that proper interpretation of the zoning code allows them to rent the property as a continuation of nonconforming use — grandfathered use — or as an accessory use. In the alternative, they are seeking a variance from the Zoning Hearing Board so they may rent out for private parties.

A June event planned for the Delaware County Brandywine Valley Conference and Visitors Bureau at Stonebridge had to change venues when the township sought an injunction in the Court of Common Pleas. An out of court settlement was reached in which the Barnabeis agreed not host the event in exchange for being permitted to host a wedding in September. Going through a zoning hearing was also part of the agreement.

Township resident Don Weiss, along with business partners, bought the 7-plus-acre property in 2007 as an investment. In 2008 they went before the Planning Commission and received permission to subdivide the property. They also went through a conditional use hearing for approval to use the large house as a B&B. They sold the property in the latter part of 2011.

Under direct examination from attorney Jim Byrne Jr., who is representing the Barnabeis, Weiss testified that the property had already been used for various events that went beyond any B&B limitation, and that the township knew about those uses and, in fact, took part in some.

The Chadds Ford Township Republican Party held fund-raisers at Stonebridge while Weiss and his partners owned the property, he said, and supervisors attended.

Stonebridge was also the site of a month-long charity event for the Oxford Art Alliance in the spring of 2011. More than 4,000 people were in and out of the property during the showcase event, he said, and the township even granted the use of a sign.

Food, wine, beer and various items were sold on the property during the Art Alliance Showcase, Weiss added. And while Stonebridge was not rented out for the event, part of the agreement was that the alliance would paint the rooms.

Parking was onsite for that May to June event, as is required.

Additionally, the site was part of the Chadds Ford Historical Society’s Candlelight Christmas one year, and has also been used for Bible study, a christening and a prom party, he said.

Weiss also answered questions regarding traffic in to and out of the property. There are two points of ingress and egress. One is on Webb Road, the other on Route 1.

He said there was concern as far back as the B&B hearings that the Webb Road driveway was too narrow for fire trucks to get through. However, it was later shown that such vehicles can get into the property from that point.

A smoke machine set off alarms when a movie was being filmed at Stonebridge. The fire company did get its truck through without any problem, Weiss said.

Much of his testimony regarding past use and the ability for fire trucks to enter the property was repeated under cross-examination from Donaghue. However, Weiss did say that he had no recollection of ever having any conversation with township or county officials regarding any type of accessory use. In formal proceedings and in correspondence, the only uses mentioned were residential and as a B&B.

Weiss also said that he never told any prospective buyer, or the Barnabeis in particular, that the property could be used for anything other than a home and a B&B.

Some of the interaction became pointed when Donaghue asked Weiss about his reasons for originally buying Stonebridge.

Weiss acknowledged that he and his partners made the purchased as an investment, but there was a pause before answering when Donaghue asked whether subdividing the land was to maximize profit.

Weiss, who is an attorney, took a moment before responding: “Since I have to tell the whole truth…We subdivided so you [Donaghue] could buy the back lot.”

He said under further cross-examination that Donaghue never did make an offer to buy that parcel.

It was also testified that the B&B limitations include serving no meals other than breakfast and an afternoon tea, that only five of the seven bedrooms could be rented out at any one time and there was to be a limited number of cars on the site.

During re-direct examination, Weiss noted that the Brandywine Battlefield Park is also in the R-1 district, but there is commercial activity there with various items being sold on that property.

After two hours of testimony from Weiss, the July 17 zoning hearing was continued to Aug. 21. Attorneys plan to call more witnesses then.

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Adopt-a-Pet: Alexis

Adopt-a-Pet: Alexis

Alexis is a gentle and loving senior Labrador mix looking to complete a family. Alexis’ owner could no longer keep her as he was caring for a sick relative, so now Alexis is awaits her new home at CCSPCA.  A home with kids and cats would suit Alexis just fine, but she will need to be the only dog.  If you are able to provide Alexis or any of our other animals here at the shelter a home, visit the Chester County SPCA at 1212 Phoenixville Pike in West Goshen or call 610-692-6113. Alexis’ registration number is 96815236.  To meet some of our other adoptable animals, visit the shelter or log onto www.ccspca.org.  Not quite ready to adopt?  Consider becoming a CCSPCA foster parent. Kitten season is in full swing and CCSPCA needs fosters for kittens and mother cats.  Additional information and applications are available online or at the shelter.

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School board chooses interim member; opts in on Raptor Security

Tending to unfinished business, the Unionville-Chadds Ford School Board appointed Leticia Flores De Wilde as interim member of the board. She replaces Frank Murphy who resigned in June. Flores De Wilde will serve until the November election when the public votes on the position.

The board also voted on July 15 to accept the Raptor Security system at each of the six school buildings in the district.

Flores DeWilde, 41, is an attorney who lives in Pennsbury Township with her husband and two children. Born in Mexico, she came to the United States in 1977.

She was away on vacation when the vote was taken, but she made herself available for a telephone interview the following morning. She wants to serve on the school board to “give back to the community,” she said. “I found I could contribute my time and experience to the school board.“

Flores DeWilde said there’s nothing specific she wants to accomplish, but added she does want to work with other board members to maintain the district’s “unparalleled academic excellence. I look forward to working with the board for the benefit of our community and our schools.”

The July appointment has her serving until the general election in November when voters will decide who should serve out the remainder of Murphy’s term. She will face at least one person in November, that being Dell Joshi of Chadds Ford Township.

Joshi and Flores DeWilde were the two nominees who the board considered during the July meeting. Flores DeWilde won 5-3. She will be sworn in during the August meeting.

There were originally six candidates and the board held a vote in June. The two highest vote getters that month were Joshi and Carol Biederman, but neither received the five votes necessary. Biederman withdrew her candidacy before the July meeting and Flores DeWilde was nominated. Had no candidate received the requisite five votes, the matter would have gone to the Chester County Court of Common Pleas.

In another holdover from June, the board voted 7-1 to accept Raptor Visitor Security System for the district buildings. As previously reported, the cost of the system is $11,200 initially, then an additional $480 per school per year.

Adult visitors to any of the schools would have to show a driver’s license or other state issued ID card that would be scanned and the name run through a sex offender database.

If the visitor’s name is flagged as being that of someone on such a list, texts or other alerts can be sent to teachers and administrators. Policies and procedures on how to handle that type of situation would have to be developed.

The board tabled the June vote so members could get more information.

Board directors agreed that Raptor could not prevent a Sandy Hook type of incident, President Eileen Bushelow and Director Kathy Do said they liked having a uniform check-in system for each of the schools.

Director Holly Manzone was the lone dissenting vote.

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The Market at Liberty Place opens in Kennett

The Market at Liberty Place opened in Kennett Square on Friday, July 12. The market is a food court-like area featuring such vendors as Paradocx Vineyard, Kennett Brewing Co., Rick’s Steaks, State Street Grill and others.

According to Geoff Bosley, who owns the market with his father, Larry Bosley, the idea began taking shape a year ago. They visited the Reading Market in Philadelphia and similar sites in other big cities and asked themselves if it could work on a smaller scale in a smaller town.

Geoff Bosley, with scissors, cuts the ribbon to officially open The Market at Liberty Place in Kennett Square.
Geoff Bosley, with scissors, cuts the ribbon to officially open The Market at Liberty Place in Kennett Square.

“We went to the Ardmore Farmers Market and that really helped to solidify in our mind what we were looking for,” the younger Bosley said. “It’s smaller, but upscale. It’s a gathering place for people who just want to go and engage.”

He said the gathering place concept fits in well with the rest of the Kennett Square scene. It works with the current commerce and arts communities.

While there are already more than a half dozen vendors in the 10,000 square foot market already, Bosley said they are looking for more.

“We want not just a food court. We want things to compliment the tremendous vendors we already have,” he said.

Specifically, he suggested a produce vendor or a butcher to work in complement with the George & Son Seafood, or some specialty food that’s unique to the area.

The market is at 148 West State Street in the borough.

Anyone interested in becoming a vendor should visit www.themarketatlibertyplace.com

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Police log July 18: fatal motorcycle crash; DUI; lawn chairs injure riders

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• Donald J. Kulis, 42, of Garnet Valley was killed when the motorcycle he was riding hit a pickup truck that was crossing Route 202 at Isaac Bullock Lane at 8:45 p.m. on July 11. A police report said Kulis was pronounced dead at the scene. There were no other injuries and the investigation is ongoing.

• State police charged a Delaware man with theft from the Sunoco store at Routes 202 and 1. A report said Aubrey Stone, 30, of New castle, was an employee at the store. He allegedly stole cash from the register during the overnight hours of July 5 through 6.

• Someone took $20 from a wallet that a 16-year-old dropped in his driveway, police said. The incident happened on Big Woods Drive in Concord Township sometime between 5 p.m. July 2 and 2 p.m. July 3.

• Police arrested Joseph Skelley, 35, of Garnet Valley, on DUI charges after he was found unconscious in his vehicle in the Concordville Nissan lot on July 14. The arrest happened shortly before midnight.

• Police said they cited John M. Clark, 21, of West Chester Clark, 21, of West Chester, on speed violations after he struck another car from behind on Route 202 near Dilworthtown Road at 4:17 p.m. on July 12. No injuries were reported.

• It was a smash and grab at the Brandywine River Museum sometime between 5:30 and 7 p.m. on July 13. Police said someone broke into car by smashing the rear passenger window and stealing a tote bag with the victim’s driver’s license and debit card. The victim was an 18-year-old woman from Garnet Valley.

• Two people on a motorcycle were injured when they were struck by lawn chairs that flew from a pickup truck. The incident happened on Route 1 near Constitution Drive in Pennsbury Township shortly before 1 p.m. on July 6. Both of the injured were transported to Crozer Chester Medical Facility. The driver of the pickup was cited for failing to secure his load.

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From Troop K, Media barracks: Reducing number of unnecessary alarms

 Many residents and businesses in our patrol area have alarms that are monitored and audible. The State Police responds to many false alarms that could be prevented. The following are some ways in which this number could be reduced.  The State Police is asking that the alarm company knows which municipality you are located.  Examples of municipalities are Concord or Middletown Township; “Glen Mills” is a mailing address. Please check that your contact phone numbers are correct. You might want to ask if this could be a cell number instead of a landline.

Also if your alarm goes off and it is deactivated, the alarm company may still call you.  They usually want a password.  If you give the wrong one, they notify us.  If you are having trouble with your system, please call and set up an appointment with a service technician from the alarm company.

Under Pennsylvania State law, a homeowner or business may be cited once a fourth false alarm happens in a 12 month period.  The statue is cited below for your reference.

§ 7511. Control of alarm devices and automatic dialing devices.

c) FALSE ALARMS PROHIBITED. —

(1) A person that owns, uses or possesses an alarm device or automatic dialing device may not, after causing or permitting three false alarms to occur in a consecutive 12-month period, cause or permit a subsequent false alarm to occur in the same consecutive 12-month period.   A person that violates this paragraph commits a summary offense and shall, upon conviction, be sentenced to pay a fine of not more than $ 300.

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Around Town July 18

• The Sanderson Museum in Chadds Ford Township is extending its hours through November. In addition to its weekend hours, the museum is now open noon to 4 p.m. on Thursdays and Fridays.

• The staff at the Brandywine Conservancy and Brandywine River Museum will be planting more than 5,000 “landscape plugs” to turn three presently lifeless, barren, extremely brown areas into thriving native plant communities that are literally buzzing/humming/singing with life. A press relief said the planting will strengthen the ecological health of the Chadds Ford campus, reduce storm water runoff from and improve the quality of water in the Brandywine, lower the carbon footprint by reducing the amount of turf grass that is regularly mowed and be a key player in creating a display that demonstrates the beneficial qualities of native plant communities.

• The Delaware County Office of Intellectual Disabilities is partnering with Networks for Training and Development to offer a breakfast workshop on customized employment for people with intellectual disabilities 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Wednesday, July 31, at the Delaware County Intermediate Unit, rooms 171-172, 200 Yale Avenue in Morton. The goal of the initiative is to individualize the employment relationship between employees and employers in ways that meet the needs of both. Job responsibilities are customized and negotiated and attempts are made to provide reasonable accommodations for the individual. There is no cost for the workshop but space is limited. For information or to register contact Marsha Komara at the Delaware County Office of Intellectual Disabilities by July 22. Komara can be reached at komaram@co.delaware.pa.us or at 610-713-2210.

• Darlington Arts Center will hold Thursday Night Live!, an indoor concert series by Darlington’s teaching artists on Thursday nights this August. All concerts are BYOB and guests are invited to bring a small picnic to enjoy. Tickets can be purchased in advance by calling 610-358-3632 or at the door for $10 (Darlington members) or $15 (General Admission).

• On Wednesday, July 24, local chiropractor Thomas Bianco hosting Dinner on the Doc at Pescatore’s Italian Restaurant in Keystone Plaza. The evening is a wellness forum along with a free, three-course dinner. Register by calling the office at 484-840-9100. Bianco will be giving away a $50 Visa Gift Card and a host of other prizes. This event has become extremely popular so reserve your spot early. Seating is limited.

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Mind Matters: Remembering Rumpelstiltskin

Bet you thought it was a far-fetched fairy tale of little consequence. Just as Rorshachs have meaning beyond  being “just” inkblots, so too can fairy tales have a deeper psychological significance.

I remember Rumpelstiltskin, or at least I recall the epiphany I had about him when I heard James Hillman, a great Jungian psychologist, reframe the story.

Quick refresher: Rumpelstiltskin is the tiny guy who helps the miller’s daughter spin straw into gold. She needs to do this or else the king will kill her. Rumpelstiltskin will help her if she gives him her first born. She agrees, assuming that will never happen. She strikes a devil’s bargain.

The third time she spins the straw into gold, the king decides she is worth marrying. Within a year, she has a baby. Enter Rumpelstiltskin, demanding this new life.

The queen pleads with him and he gives her a reprieve of three days in which time she must discover his name or he will take the child. Rumpelstiltskin believes it is impossible for her to do this. Note that the name Rumpelstiltskin is related to a German name meaning Rattling Ghost.

The queen did discover his name in time, with the aid of her messenger. When she informs Rumpelstiltskin of his true name, he angrily disappears into the earth.

The psychological point of this? That indeed we all have shadows of our family past that haunt us. It may be the unnamed ghosts of physical abuse, sexual abuse, addictions, you “name it”! When we face these rattling ghosts and do name them, they lose their powerful grip on the psyche. Furthermore, that means new life is not stolen from us, but can be cherished and can grow.

* Kayta Curzie Gajdos holds a doctorate in counseling psychology and is in private practice in Chadds Ford, Pennsylvania. She welcomes comments at MindMatters@DrGajdos.com or 610-388-2888. Past columns are posted to www.drgajdos.com

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